Earlier in the summer we went to the Royal Manx Agricultural Show.
It’s a big deal on our little island. There are equestrian events, petting areas for miniature goats, brass bands, gymnastics performances. A bouncy castle. We even saw a lumberjack competition.
One of the more outstanding things I saw was a piece of farm machinery from the early 1900′s. I believe it was a baler. The thing was huge and loud and a bit smelly.
The remarkable thing about it was that it was still running.
It had changed owners numerous times and was challenging to find parts for I am sure but it still worked.
It could still do the job it was made for and it was over 100 years old.
My new flats aren’t even a year old and they’re already falling apart.
The things we make today are crap. Most of them anyways.
In 2012 our things are cheap and made by machines and held together with glue. No one gives a shit if it lasts.
And why should they? Everything is cheap, such a small slice of our cost of living, that we can easily replace it at Target or Walmart. And when that crappy shoe/gadget/blouse falls apart we toss it in the landfill and buy another.
I thought I was buying quality. I was really just buying a beautifully packaged piece of crap.
My shoes were an investment. Or so I thought.
I have large feet and bony heels. Most flats cut deep trenches in my heels and never become comfortable.
These shoes promised to be different. The were supple leather. Bendable. I read a lot of reviews and there was nothing but raves for them.
I loved and raved about mine too. Initially.
They were comfortable right out of the box. I walked into town and home in them. Five kilometres without an ache, pain or bloody heel. I was sold.
So few things we make today are meant to last.
Designer flats you can fit in your purse and wear all day, every day. That’s what the website says. I call bullshit.
The shoes aged quickly. A thin area appeared near my big toe. The matte leather frayed and lost its luster. The supposedly flexible brown leather of the sole peeled off.
I sent photos in to the company and complained. Strange they said, I can’t believe they look like that after five months of wear. They said it was unusual and they didn’t know why the shoes had fallen apart.
They offered to send me a replacement pair. No refund because I wore them outside.
I’ve accepted the replacement pair but I’m dubious about how long these ones will last.
Still trying to go with quality over quantity here. Still trying to invest a little more so I can reduce my consumption, own fewer things and support businesses that are making quality products.
I’m trying but it’s a battle to find things that will last.
In a world where people want more and more and care less and less about how it was made, who made it and where it’s from and how long it will last, I’m in the minority. I’m weird.
Weird is fine by me. I’ll spend more time sourcing and deliberating over a purchase than most people. I’ll read all the customer reviews and email the company asking them where the product is made and where the materials are from. I’ll do more leg work and due diligence to buy a new pair of jean than some people do when they buy a car.
Because I’m done with having things that don’t last and things that I don’t use in my home.
I am a mother, wife and writer from Vancouver, Canada, currently living in the 
Have you read this book? I read an excerpt and want to check it out of my local library when they get a copy. Based on what you’ve written here, it seems like it would interest you. http://www.amazon.com/Overdressed-Shockingly-High-Cheap-Fashion/dp/1591844614
Read an excerpt of it on Slate (I think) and linked back to it here.
I was researching how long shoes used to last and people used to wear the same pair every day for years. Cobblers would make them by hand from molds of your feet. I’m sure they were expensive and a big investment. But they lasted. They had to. No chance of picking up some cheap slides while you were grocery shopping.
I second the book. I just finished reading the book a few weeks ago and happened to be in a store that had locally made, eco-friendly (and handmade, I think?) clothes and I was impressed by how much thicker the material was versus clothes from a mall. I was sold. I’m currently working on reducing the number of poorly-made, low-quality clothes in my wardrobe and am not going to be buying any new clothes for a while. I figure that the next item of clothing I buy will be locally-made and of good quality (and out of my current price range, but I’ve learnt that you get what you pay for, of course).
I had a friend travel to the Hungary for a two week stint to learn shoe making. Maybe you should be purchasing from the Eastern Bloc!
I think I showed you the pair I had made for me by a proper cobbler. He measured my feet, noted where I needed extra support and made me THE most comfortable pair of shoes I’ve ever owned. Wore them with no socks on thier very first wear and they didn’t rub anywhere. I did have to taken them back in for a small repair but was also given my own pot of glue so I can sort any other smaller issues (as I live several hundred miles from the shop!!). Yes, they cost more than I would normally pay for a pair of shoes as most of mine come from cheap high street shops or charity shops (£86) but I would say that they are worth every penny!!
Back in the late 90′s I was an au pair in Italy and my host mom gave me a fab recommendation for everyday loafers that last for years. She had an old pair of Tod’s loafers that she had worn nearly everyday for 10 years. Yes, I said 10 years. When I finally got a bit of money of my own I bought a pair. I wore them non-stop for at least a couple of years and they still look nearly perfect. Two years ago I bought a pair of Ferragamo loafers as an alternative. I have walked km’s in them and they still look practically brand new and fit like a glove. Don’t give up on designers all together. I agree that it is frustrating when expensive items don’t last, but some of them are well worth the money.
Thanks for the recommendations, Lynn. I may be disappointed but I haven’t given up. I know there are shoes out there built to last. Just have to find them.
Walking is how I generally get around, and I am tired of my shoes wearing out in a single season too. I appreciate the recommendations from Lynn Morrison, but can only find leather shoes in that brand. I would love to find some high-quality nonleather (synthetic or natural materials) shoes that will last for years. Any advice, anyone?
Jessica – I am struggling with the same thing! I need something comfortable but office savvy. Vegetarian Shoes (the brand) seem like they would be great, but I have yet to try them. What I have tried and would NOT recommend: Terra Plana last year (they were pricey, they sucked and they aren’t making shoes any longer!) , Oka B. flats: (I loved their sandals) they were not too expensive and I was excited they were made in the U.S. but they really didn’t cut it, Novacas: I ordered them online in my normal size and they were WAY too big, a local store carries them but rarely in a size smaller than a 6.5 and those were still too big for me. Good luck.
Wait…did I read that right. You couldn’t get a refund because you wore them OUTSIDE? They’re shoes! Where else would you spend the majority of the time wearing them?!?
That’s right. I was hoping they would refund my purchase and I could put the dollars towards a hopefully longer lasting shoe. Nope.
Same thing happened to me. I spent £130 on a pair of leather boots I expected to last for years. After 6 months they had to be resoled. Almost immediately after that, a hole developed in the leather in more than one place. The zipper broke on one side. And now the sole I had fixed is coming unstuck, because it had to be glued on because it was made of rubber, not leather. I’m hesitant to spend so much again on something that’s lasted less than a year.
So frustrating. Boots are on my list for winter and I’m hoping to have a better experience this time around.
This is timely. I needed to get some new clothes for work, in a “transition” size, since I have an 11 week old and am one of the unlucky few who actually keep weight on while breastfeeding. Thinking back on the conversation, it’s absurd that I was willing to waste $100 at a store (H&M) for the clothes, KNOWING that they are cheap and will not last, but I justified it because of the price and the quantity of clothing. As for shoes, the shoes that have lasted me for years are Birkenstocks (one pair I’ve had for over 20 years, and have them resoled a few times) and my Doc Martens from the same year. My next shoe purchase will be from Aurora Shoe Company – shoes custom made for YOU (you send them a trace of your foot), hand sewn, and MADE IN THE USA. And the price is slightly cheaper than what you’ve paid. I’ve read amazing reviews on them.
Birkenstocks really do last. My sister gave me a pair she wasn’t wearing and they have sadly gone MIA (think left in a hotel room in Montreal).
Transition clothes: I found myself not wanting to part with a lot of $ post-partum as well last time around. I bought a few cheap things from American Eagle and it was all in pieces by the 10 month mark when I was back to pre-pregnancy weight.
Another vote for Birkenstocks here. Aside from men’s tennis shoes (why is it that shoe manufacturers think women’s toes curve inwards?) they are the ONLY shoes that don’t hurt my feet. I have sandals for summer, and clogs for winter, and I’ve had them forever.
I still have the DocMartens boots I bought back in 1995
I agree that we don’t make things to last like we used to. Obviously I can’t see how sturdy and robust your shoes really are (they look like light weight flats), although I agree they look worn. What mileage have they done? I doubt any true flats withstand heavy use (like walking 5kms/day), but I’d expect them to last longer if you’ve basically worn them indoors as ‘slippers’.
If it gives you hope, my husband and I are still wearing Timberland boots (£85) that are at least 10 years old. I also have a couple of pairs of boots from Russell & Bromley that are still in very good shape and years old. Karrimor walking shoes last me about 4-5 years, with daily wear. Expensive ballet flats, like those you pictured, would last me a several years, but I wouldn’t do a lot of walking in them since they’re really not intended for that purpose. It might also explain why they’re a relatively modern design.
I do wear them a lot and probably average 5km/day in them. But they are advertised as being built to wear daily and for a walking city lifestyle.
Thanks for the recommends on Timberland and Karrimor.
I’ve been thinking about this some more. I think you’ve either been unlucky or unrealistic with that one pair of shoes, since I actually think footwear is one area where quality might have improved over the years. Electronics, household appliances and furniture definitely haven’t, but beyond that I’ve normally got what I paid for.
If you really want something to last, consider Doc Martins; you’ll probably be sick of them before they wear out. And size 9 won’t be an issue at all!
I also have some Tods loafers: much more hard wearing than any flats I’ve had, which I basically just wear on evenings out.
Unlucky on these ones I think. My Frye boots have been a great investment: well made, comfortable after breaking in and still look great. I know the right fashionable/comfortable/hearty walking shoes are out there – just need to find them.
Just read your last comment: I’m disappointed they didn’t give you a refund on the basis that it sounds like their product claims misrepresent the shoes.
And clearly you were not unrealistic. Let’s hope you were unlucky and the replacement pair are good!
I buy Karrimor’s at Sports Direct, for about £25. They have an online shop if you don’t have one on the island.
Are these the Tieks? How disappointing!
Unfortunately, sometimes even the “Made in USA” products are made in sweat-shops by illegal immigrants. I prefer to buy local, but for things that should last a long time (shoes, clothes, electrical items), I primarily take experience/recommendations.
EXACTLY! That is exactly why my husband and I have our own businesses. Living Tree on facebook and http://www.southpawleatherworks.com
We want to bring a quality product to our customers. We usually buy “old” items because we KNOW they last and last and last. Everything we buy now tears up quickly.
Buy portuguese shoes. You can’t get any better. Love your blog, great inspiration!!
I wholeheartedly agree that most everything these days is made cheaply and doesn’t last. You can apply this to almost anything, and in many cases a higher price tag doesn’t mean better made. I do tend to buy a lot from LL Bean – I admit, I’ll never be uber fashionable, but that’s not my goal!
Their shoes are solidly built and their satisfaction policy is close to unmatched. We have had a lot of issues with most our household appliances, lighting fixtures and faucets – all of them new when we moved into our house. Things that used to last for 20 years, now going kaput at the 7 year mark. It’s really frustrating! Just another reason to buy less and buy from companies that have excellent product guarantee/warranty (which is one of my questions before I buy almost anything these days).
THANK YOU. I get so irritated with the lack of quality I see when I go shopping. My mother-in-law, who is an extremely generous person, tends to over-shop for my kids at local department stores when we visit them. All the kids’ clothes start wearing through within a month or two–even before they can grow out of them. They receive piles of clothes as gifts and I still have to go get good quality stuff later. (I hate spending that much on kids’ clothing or clothing for myself, but I’m tired of stitching coming apart after a few wears.) Luckily I’ve found a couple of brands of children’s clothing that last well enough for our kids’ wear and at least one round of hand-me-downs to friends.
Are you looking for flats or something sturdier? I actually wear my black Dansko clogs almost everywhere except in hot weather. I’ve had the same pair for about 10 years now and they still look good. (A couple of small blemishes, but nothing a little shoe polish won’t take care of.) I like walking in them and find them to be fairly versatile. Not the world’s most fashionable, but they work for my style. (Note: I own very few pairs of shoes: 1 pair heels, 1 pair Merrell ‘barefoot’ ballet flats, Danskos, and a pair of running shoes.)
I noticed you already mentioned Frye boots. Do you like them? I’m saving up for a pair when I move back to a slightly cooler climate next year. I’ve heard great things about them.
I had a pair of Dansko peep-toe flats that I regularly wore for about 7 years. They were super comfortable, and I lived in a big city, so I know I put a lot of mileage on them. I sadly gave them to my mom because I went up a size after my 2nd pregnancy; she loves them! and they still look great
I agree. I also live in Europe & walk, bike & train everywhere. I have had great luck with Tory Burch flats & Camper shoes. Do you know Campers?
Sticking with tried and true classics, or handcrafted, traditional items help a lot
Most new inventions just don’t live up to the hype. Marketers have to come up with new designs and materials, and most of the time there is no way of knowing whether they will last at all, unfortunately.
I’ve found the same thing. I wear the same jeans two pairs of jeans for months straight, until they finally rip out somewhere beyond repair. Jeans were invented for cowboys riding horses and wrestling with bulls and sleeping in the desert. Mine last a few months. The more I pay, I find, the less they last.
Glad to see you calling this out, the company should be held somehow accountable.
This particularly irks me with gadgets. I bought a brand new MacBook Pro in 2007. It still runs like a champion. In that time though, I’ve gone through maybe five iPhones, which seem almost prebuilt to break a week after the new version comes out…
I’m constantly on the hunt for shoes that are genuinely good quality. It’s difficult to tell which cost a lot because they’re well made, and which are expensive because you’re paying for the name. My husband and I both walk at least a few miles a day. Most of my husband’s trainers have lasted around three or four months on average. I just don’t think that shoes are designed to actually walk in any more – they’re designed for you to walk to your car, do a little bit of walking around a shopping centre and that’s about it. I’ve found that Converse are fairly durable, as are Birkenstocks. Comfort is also important to me as I get a lot of foot pain and heels are completely out!
It is very annoying, and I think it is quite deliberate that stuff is not made to last anymore. It keeps the economy growing (and while we are at it, it messes up our earth)
Maybe you know this website (and the movies on it). It has me thinking for weeks now. http://www.storyofstuff.org/movies-all/story-of-stuff/
I have been feeling like this SO MUCH lately. Everything from expensive (and supposedly good quality) shoes to appliances. In a world where consumers have been green-washed, I have come to understand that even refriderators, washers, etc. are made to break and not easily be fixed so that we will throw them away and buy a new one. WHAT??? What is so green about $165 shoes that (even if they replace) go into the landfill after 5 months or my beloved washer (okay, so right now that’s my thing) that only gave us 5 years of service. How much energy does it cost to replace these things that used to last SO MUCH longer?
Anyway, the shoe thing is a bother. I’ve done well with our local shoe repair and a bunch of my friends are suggesting Aurora Shoe Co. out of New York. Apparently, they are glorious. Although, like you, I’m skeptical…feeling like everything is crap, even though their reputation is wonderful. Thanks for sharing this one. It was timely for me!
My husband recently bought a pair of shoes for work. He walks or bikes 3.5 miles to work, works primarily on his feet and walks back. Shoes were $70. 20 work days later (just 20) they had a hole in the heel.., they’ve sent us a new pair since they’re warrantied for a year. I still can’t get over how fast they fell apart. We have three pair of shoes each. 1 running, 1 flip flops (our flip flops are 5 years old and look new, they’re Rainbows we got as bridesmaid/groomsmen gifts from my sister in law) and one casual/work shoe. My pair has holes, they’re 2 years old. I’m definitely taking in these recommendations. I’d love a pair of shoes that lasts.
We’ve had the same issue with my husband’s shoes. He walks to work in often inclement weather. We wanted something that was worked for formal office wear and that could be resoled/repaired when needed and was waterproof. Think we found it but it was five times what we would normally spend on shoes that only lasted 8 months. These ones should last 5-7 years with care and upkeep. Fingers crossed.
Oh thank you for your post and everyone for your recommendation. A few years ago I took some trousers back to a uk fashion shop , they were 3 months old and and fallen to pieces. I was told by the sales assistant. “Clothes aren’t designed to be worn for more that 3 months” WHAT. She begrudgingly gave me a credit not and I have not shopped there since. I have also bought expensive boots. Which haven’t last but I will let that go because I can wear out DMs in a year, I’m that bad on my shoes.
I have been feeling exactly the same way. When I find a product I love, I want it to last forever. I hate having to replace things after a few months. Shoes are a particular problem for me, too.
I have a neighbor in his 70′s who invited my husband and me over to look over his old clothes and take what we would like. I didn’t know what to expect and was prepared for some garish 60′s or 70′s stuff, but it turned out he had a very nice collection of very expensive clothes that were not out of fashion and could be used for many more years to come. He had tailored suits, custom made shirts, wonderful leather shoes and boots, etc. Not a lot of it fit my husband, but he took a few nice items that worked. It makes me sad and angry that it is so hard to find the same quality today. People took pride in making and owning products back then. They also had the sense to save up for good quality basics rather than purchasing entire new wardrobes every season.
I don’t see our throw-away mentality ending anytime soon. There are too many people who just don’t care, and those of us who do care often can’t afford the higher prices of truly quality products. I do what I can, though. I exhaustively research just about everything I need to buy, and if the best product is too expensive for my budget I see if I can find it used or on clearance.
p.s. I’m not sure if the shoes would work for you or if you could even get them in the UK, but I recently discovered Vintage Shoe Company and have heard their products are great. I don’t have any personal experience with them yet.
I had a pair of Chaco sandals last me 10 years, and I passed them on to someone else just so I could get an updated style. They would have kept on going! That’s what I’m talkin’ about! I agree, things should be made to last. I am known to get leather boots re-soled too. I’m sick of all the cheap crap! I must be weird, too!
Amen to Chacos! My husband used to go through a pair of sandals every summer (due to the rough nature of his job) and his Chacos have now lasted 3 years! He now has to get new straps, but it is just a few dollars. This is the best any shoe has lasted for him! Even his Birks didn’t hold up like the Chacos!
Amen sister! I’m tired of it too! It’s just not right. In some ways, I feel like it’s stealing. We give our hard earned money, but then don’t our money’s worth in return. I’m willing to buy less so I can spend more on quality items. But those items haven’t always measured up. Makes me sad.
I love Birkenstocks, and my husband has had great luck with his trusty pair of Rockport loafers.
Me too. I’m about to get my sandals re-soled for the second time – my leather uppers are still holding strong since 2001. No other pair of shoes has come close to my Birks, and these have traveled the earth…if only everything else were made this well!
Keep the recommendations coming, friends! What about jeans, sweaters, etc?
Try duluthtrading.com and click on the womens tab at the top. They have great clothes. Mostly work/play clothes, not business attire or dress clothes.
I’ve experienced both sides of this – “quality” shoes that fell apart, but I also have a pair of brown thrift store flats that have gotten regular (but not daily) wear and still look fabulous five years later. You mentioned them upstream, but Frye shoes are indestructible and with re-soling should last a lifetime. My chiro has had her Fryes since the 70s and still wears them everyday! They also make flats, oxfords, and heels now as well, not just boots. When my thrift store flats bite the dust I’m planning to replace them with Fryes.
Sorry to hear about your flats, especially after all your research and efforts to buy quality.
I have trouble finding shoes that fit well, due to wide feet and long toes, and don’t mind paying for real quality. My experience with Tod’s loafers – I will never ever buy them again. Having been a customer for twenty years, when they were still known as “J. P. Tod’s” – these were my top choice for loafers and they lasted for years. I think they quality has gone down hill fast since they became really popular. The last pair I bought – identical in style to a treasured pair from ten years ago – fell apart after two wearings. They were falling apart while walking, the sole and the body of the shoe were bonded by a mid section and that crumbled while walking. Defective or just poorly made? I called the company and then sent them photos, when I bought the shoes, how much I paid, and how long I’ve been a customer (having ordered shoes from their New York store to be shipped to me out of the country). They will not repair, replace, or guarantee any shoes that are more than a few months old, and only if they have the exact item in stock. Huh? I was shocked. So no more Tod’s for me. Now I’m going even higher end, and expect these to really last! (They may be two to four times the price of the Tod’s, but let’s see how long they last! Shall let you know about them.)
There are “designer” brands and then there are DESIGNER brands. Just because something is silk or cashmere doesn’t mean it’s the higher end longer lasting version.
There’s a book called “Deluxe: How Luxury Lost Its Lustre” by Dana Thomas. Eye opening, even on many of the so-called high end designer brands, counterfeit goods, fakes, cheap vs. quality, child-labour and such so we can have “cheap” bulk items – even with a brand name label plastered on the front. And goes into detail on some very high end items that are crafted rather than machine made. Fascinating. Eye opening, and gutting in parts.
I cannot afford to buy cheap. I’d rather have tailored pieces that I wear for years and fit me than items that fall apart before I’ve even tossed out the receipt. Let’s hope these new brands I’m trying will last….
I think this is why I’m so brand loyal! I’ve found certain brands (especially for men’s/boy’s clothes/shoes) that last forever and stick with them. One brand that comes to mind is Van’s. I, along with family members, have had their shoes for years with daily wear. I often find that the “skate brands” outlast anything else on the market, especially when it comes to boy’s/men’s wear! I know a lot of people look at us like we are just walking billboards, but really, these clothes last forever! And as for designer stuff, I’ve seen my mom and sister fall into that trap far too often to try it out myself.
So sorry about the shoes. That really stinks!
I swear by Danskos. They may not be the style you are looking for (although they make many cute styles), but every pair I have owned has lasted 7+ years beautifully. Want even more proof? I live in Alaska and I wear my Danskos all winter long. I only have two pairs, but I have one pair I wear most of the winter. If they get a little scuffed I just apply some shoe polish and they are as good as new. These $120 shoes are cute (perfect with my straight leg or boot-cut jeans) and hand-stitched (because of this every pair tends to fit a bit differently) and built to last.
Just my 2 cents worth of advise.
Rock on, minimialist mom! I just invested in two pairs of fall shoes, leather clog type things. Not very sleek and fashionable, but at 41, I’ve decided my very high heel days are behind me (ballet flats and thin flip flogs do me no favors either) and need to baby my poor, aching feet as much as possible. One pair is Dansko and the other Josef Siegel. Hope they last!
That would be “flip flops” not “flogs” obviously!!! Hate spelling errors!!! haha
LOL! “Flip Flogs” does provide a very interesting mental image though… sort of a cross between a beach bum and an ascetic monk!
YES, YES, YES!!! Thank you! I am weird, too. So sick and tired of crappy crap! I am on the hunt for some great shoes; I am eagerly reading over all your comments to see what other people like, because frankly, I have no clue when it comes to good quality shoes. I will say that I got a pristine pair of LL Bean Wicked Good slippers at Goodwill for a whopping 5 dollars about 4 years ago (maybe longer?) and they have held up beautifully despite wearing the shearling down to the leather sole. I cannot imagine NOT having them in the winter. I would be absolutely fascinated to see a post of reader recommendations for shoes. In regard to the ‘older is better’ theme going on, my husband and I collect antique/vintage appliances for farm and home use. I have a 118 year old sewing machine that makes a stitch like you would not believe. I also have many models from 1900 up to the 60s and they were built to LAST. You can still get parts for them! Now, everything is made with cheap ass plastic. Lastly, we own a repair business, and some of the new tractors/equipment we see are absolute CRAP. Now, we’re talking thousands upon thousands of dollars for JUNK. How terrible is that! Keep up your weirdness. You’re my favorite ‘blogess’. lol
How bloody annoying! I hate it when you think you’ve made a quality purchase only to be let down by shoddy craftsmanship and materials. Shoes, bags and Winter coats are somethings that I’m happy to pay more for in the hope they’ll last for years. I feel really peed off if they don’t.
Try Doc Martens. They make really cute flats and these babies are made to last. Check out their website!
I know what you mean! We just moved and had to leave our 10 y/o washer and dryer behind. They’ve worked perfectly for us over the years and in my researching the latest and greatest washers, I read so many reviews about the new water-saving top (agitator-less) /front loaders where people kept stating that it didn’t wash well, it kept breaking down. I decided to stay old school and buy a cheaper and more reliable top loading washer WITH an agitator. Things are definitely not made the way they used to be.
This link was posted by Rachel on Eco Cat Lady’s blog: http://ruthemilydavey.co.uk/shoes.html
These look like they’d be expensive, but designed to last, fit well, and I am sure it says that they are designed to be repaired.
I think one of the problems is that things are now ‘not worth repairing’ as the repair is more expensive than the original object…which means that we are losing the skills to repair anything!
I bought a pait of riding boots in Mongolia, and when they needed to be re-soled, the cobbler (we still have a proper cobbler where I live!) said they were very good quality- not bad for 15 dollars. I guess when I was in Mongolia 9 years ago the consumer, throw-away culture had not arrived there…
You’re right. It’s all crap. That’s why I’m not particularly a fan of the “quality over quantity” adage. While I wholeheartedly support the concept of living with less, I don’t find myself getting too excited over spending top dollar on an item when I can find a comparable item for much, much less. Case in point: shopping for running shoes for the first time in years, I am finding that most quality brands are priced over $125 CDN. I bought my last pair at Costco for 40 bucks – they are a great brand and they have lasted several years already. So I guess in my mind it’s not always necessary to spend any extra money in order to get the best quality, it just takes patience and the willingness to not buy something the very second one thinks you (proverbial you) need it. That being said, there is a ton of crap out there in the stores. I don’t have any recommendations for adult shoes, but we have had great luck with Geox shoes for the boys. I’m pretty sure they’re made of galvanized steel in disguise because most of their shoes we are able to get through two kids (believe it or not) and they are still not falling apart! Definitely worth the price tag, but they do go on sale periodically too. Good luck with your search!
PS. Have just realized you are expecting #2 – many congratulations! (I am just now catching up on all the blog reading I didn’t do this summer
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Geox: got a pair 2nd hand when we were in Vancouver. You are right: indestructible.
Thanks and no blog reading must mean you had a great summer! Heard about the heat waves. Jealous.
I totally agree, I had the same experience just a few months ago. Can you believe that I have a cheap pair that I have been giving to the cobbler a couple times that I still wear 10 years on, but my new expensive pair of flats is also falling apart 6 months on???
I am so mad that I want to either make stuff myself or order it tailor-made at the cobbler’s!!! GRRRR
PS: I have sometimes gotten more out of a 30 euro pair than I have out of a 200 euro one! So that proves that quality and price are worlds apart. I always look at the stitching, glue work and so on and I can usually tell if it’ll last or not! Good luck finding new durable shoes!!
It’s called “planned obsolescence” and was put into practice in the 60′s by many companys
I have shoes issues and need ones that support my hips. I’ve been very happy with my Birkenstocks as folks above have discussed as well as my De Wolky shoes. Very frustrating!
Planned obsolescence – that’s what I was going to say, too. If any of you understand German, check out this brilliant documentary: Geplanter Verschleiss – Kaufen fuer die Muellhalde: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wIsqGxWW4Ys
http://www.tibs.at/content/planned-obsolescence-geplanter-verschlei%C3%9F-kaufen-f%C3%BCr-die-m%C3%BCllhalde
The second link also gives you English websites and further links.
Just adding my voice to the choir here – planned obsolescence is apparently not just for electronics anymore. But I think the “average” consumer never notices these things because most people have SO many pairs of shoes that they seldom wear one more than a few times before it “goes out of fashion” and they replace it.
One time, back when I was still working, a group of us were sitting around waiting for a meeting to start. It was early winter and everyone had just broken out the boots. One woman was admiring another’s boots and said something like “I HAVE to go get new boots, I’m so embarrassed wearing these because they’re last year’s style.” I didn’t say anything, mostly because my jaw was on the ground. This was a single mother with 2 kids, a deadbeat ex who never paid her any child support, who was eeking by on a tiny salary and public assistance. Yet somehow, in her world, boots should be replaced every year because they’re no longer in fashion?!?
I think the vast majority of the public has really swallowed the Kool-Aid on our role as consumers.
Similar to something that was observed about Japanese motorcycles and top-end electrical products a few years ago: built-in obsolescence! Capitalism can only work if the market expands every year, but how, when everyone’s got a DVD-player, iPad, top-of-the-range pair of shoes and family saloon car, can the market continue to expand?
By constantly recreating the need to buy, and this is most easily done if the products works brilliantly for a limited amount of time and then ceases to be! If it’s functioned just about long enough to be acceptable and to impress us with whatever it does, we will buy another one of the same brand.
your writing style has me giggling. it’s great. it is crap we’re buying these days.
anyway i just caught a special “at home with venitia in kyoto” and she picked up these marvelous flats that were made especially for her by a local cobbler. she intended to bring them by maybe once a year or more to have the heels and souls checked, to have them conditioned for weather and wear, but fully expected to wear these shoes indefinitely. fantastic! i wish i could find out how -that- went.
sorry about your pricey flats. as my husband says most reviews on site are from people who had problems or were already excited about the product before they’ve experienced it. the average satisfied skeptic rarely replies. i like to ask strangers on the street. they’re usually caught off-guard and very honest because. =D
of course it may make you look nuts. but who’s to care- you’ll get great shoes!
Bummed to see that the Tieks look that shabby after 5 months, because I just bought and have been wearing the exact same pair. In fact, I just ordered another pair (they’re comfy and I am on my feet ALL DAY) but perhaps I should reconsider…
My Danskos have worn like steel for YEARS. Maybe not the style you crave, but they simply don’t die.
That’s exactly why I stopped buying clothes, and started making my own. It doesn’t matter how expensive a piece of clothing is… it just doesn’t last. I’ve decided that if it’s not made by me, I don’t want it. All my family is aware of my decision too. At least I’m sure I’m making quality clothes that last (The secret is in how the clothes are finished on the inside).
If you want something done right, do it yourself… if possible. That means things like making your own clothes, baking your own bread, cooking all your own meals, repairs, even home schooling your kids (if you are that dedicated).
You get better quality, more control, money savings, and the satisfaction of being self-reliant.
A neighbor and I were just talking about how brand new appliances (that cost a fortune) start breaking after a few years!
I have to say that I’ve had great luck buying at our local consignment shops. Even though the items are used, the owners pick really great quality clothes/shoes to supply their stores. I’ve gotten long lasting clothing (jeans especially) from consignment stores for a fraction of the price.
About that piece of farm equipment, I bet it was made by John Deere. John Deere World Headquaters is located in the next town over from mine. In Moline, Illinois. Everyone wants to work for Deere. It’s hard to get a job there and if you do, you stay there forever. No one quits Deere. They are pay exceptionally well and have fabulous benefits and they turn out products of perfection. Farmers livelihood depend on their equipment and they all know that “Nothing Runs like a Deere”.
Yeah, quality products have to be made by people who really care and who are compensated well for their hard work. I agree that this has become a throw-away, who cares society where quantity rules over quality. Most of the time we just pay for a label that stands for nothing except the hype.
A good resource is the “Buy It For Life” subreddit that can be found at:
http://www.reddit.com/r/BuyItForLife/
The focus there is on “practical, durable and quality made products that are made to last”, and you can do a search for the item for which you are looking.
My “It’s all crap” question is – “When did panties become such crap?” After a few wearings they are ready for the garbage. My friend Linda is not impressed, and she is wondering if anyone makes quality, comfortable, non-disposable ‘pants’ anymore.
Chacco’s are the best shoes for summer wear. Made in Colorado and so sturdy for all types of feet. Mine always last at least 5 years before the sole needs replaced, and I literally wear a pair everyday all summer (Ohio summer=3 months a year).
chacco’s are made in china now 8(
i was so bummed when i found out
This reminds me of our recent electric lawnmower debacle. We very carefully chose a plug-in lawnmower to avoid gasoline guzzling. (We rent a house right now–when we have our own house, we just won’t have a lawn that needs to be mowed.) They keep malfunctioning (battery burns out while charging), and the company won’t replace the part we need and won’t refund our money. We’re on our third lawnmower now, and I’m kind of sick about what to do. I want take a fourth lawnmower, so I guess I’m going to have to throw a tremendous fit. I will. If they won’t relent, though, I’ll be out about $500. Ugh.
I haven’t the time to look through all the comments, but I’m right there with you. I’m at the point in my life where I want to spend more to get a quality product.
We just bought our son his first pair of shoes and we got Soft Star shoes. They are GREAT! I’m saving up for my own pair. I think they are really made to last. I’d check those out, too. They are hand made in the USA.
This drives me crazy as well. When you find shoes that last and fit well please share! I’ve started taking some of my shoes to a cobbler to be resoled, and find doing so sooner rather than later helps but the leather still tends to wear through rather quickly.
Dansko/Sanita are my vote for longest-lasting shoes. I forget the whole story, but Sanita is made by the original group that used to make Danskos. Dansko got sold, or started being made in China, or something like that, and are possibly now inferior to Sanitas. Sorry I don’t have the story straight. In any case, both brands are very, very long-lasting shoes.
I’ve gone through a lot of shoes in my search for a comfortable and durable pair. NONE match the quality and the comfort of my Dr. Martens. I know they have a reputation of being a punk rock, combat boot looking shoe. But they now have a huge selection of styles. Many casual women shoes too. They are more expensive, but a lot of them have a lifetime guarantee. So you know you will get a good shoe. http://www.dmusastore.com/
“How Luxury Lost It’s Luster” a book on high end fashion going down in quality. The $2,000 Chanel bag that’s says “made in Italy” likely made by a teen in China. What’s the point? I look for high end vintage pieces and handmade. I’ve had good luck on Etsy and like that i am helping a “mom and pop’ style store instead of big retail stores.
I SO get this. Earlier this year, I bought an $80 pair of jeans, which is the most I’ve ever spent on jeans, thinking it would be an investment. Researched what would work on my body type, what brands were made to last, etc. Sadly, they ended up with a big hole in the thigh in 5 months. Beyond that, the company told me they couldn’t do anything about it besides forward my complaint to their quality control because it had been longer than their 60 day return/exchange policy. Sorry, but I expect my clothes to last more than 60 days, especially washing them exactly as I’m supposed to once a week. Oh, and the girl told me that I shouldn’t be washing my jeans more than once a month, to which I responded that she obviously didn’t have kids.
Give ECCO a try. I bought a pair of their casual flats 6 months ago and have been so pleased with them. Quality leather, stylish design, sturdy construction, and extremely comfortable. They are my about-town shoes; I wear them daily and frequently put 3+ kms on them in one wear without any discomfort, blistering, aching etc. Based on how well they’ve worn to date, I’m expecting to get 4+ more long summers out of them (currently living in Calgary where flats usually can be worn about 6 months a year). Well worth the investment in my estimation and I will definitely be purchasing my next pair of heels from them! http://www.eccocanada.com/who-we-are.html
I hate this about the times we are living in!! I still have toys from when I was a child that I’ve given to my 5 kids to play with, when the new toys I bought them are broken in 3 weeks. And DVD cases too, you can tell they are so cheaply made just in the past 10 years.
Your flats are the image I have in my head about what my 2 week old *rave review* flats are going to look like in a few months. I shopped forever to find comfy flats, they are soft, buttery, flexible and since I work on a university campus, they are walkable w/no break in period. PERFECT! Nearly $100…err…um…ok. Because everyone says they’re worth it…including the sales associates at the store who all have them on.
So, today I look at the toe, and I see some scuffing. Scuffing as is my pretty butter soft leather is peeling in the most random place! I’m second guessing my purchase of uber-comfy shoes and wondering if maybe I should have paid MORE for the XX brand instead. I must be sick! These are flats, not fancy *red-bottoms*. They dont even have any glitz on them. Luckily, I purchased at Nordstroms, which I hear has an AWESOME return policy, so I’m going to wear them for another month or so & keep watch. If they get much worse, they’re heading back to their homeland, so to speak, and I’m putting the $$ down on something durable!
Chiming back in to second what others have said – my Chacos are 4 years old this summer & still look like new. They are my every-day casual shoe (too bad they don’t work for the office). My Danskos are 5yrs old and don’t look worn at all. I just purchased my first pair of Fryes, which I hope will last me a good long time. Maybe I should look into some full grain, no holds barred leather flats that will hurt to break in but be worth it long term.
The flats I have on now are Sam Edleman flats. They are butter soft & have some cush on the inside too. I’m sad that they scrape SO easily though. Going to try some of the other brands people have listed.
I hate rebuying the same shoe yearly as if I am a toddler. My feet are the same size and my shoes should last until I’m sick of them!
sooooooo happy i returned mine recently. they hurt my toes, so i exchanged for the next size up and they fell off. my new shoes are ahnu karma. i’m not sure how long they’ll last, but they were $90us and i have worn them a few times a week for 4 months. they are very comfy.
i hate all of this cheap garbage too. my icebreaker tee (as well as my hubs) have holes after a couple of months. we thought they would last forever. my gap tees last longer than that for 1/4 or less the price.
we have had the same problem with our furniture in our home. we spent $4k 2 months ago on a leather sofa and have already had the repair guy out to fix stitching and replace the cushions. we are so disappointed. why can’t it be like my grandparents sofa. it was purchased when they were married and loved until they passed on. now my cousin has it.
good luck finding good shoes. i’m curious to hear what you choose and how long they last. 8/
(i returned my tieks)
I hate buying stuff that doesn’t last too. Waste of money, time, and our earth.
Have you tried running barefoot (in the summer)? There’s scientific evidence that shoes don’t stop injuries and people have done it for thousands or years, with great benefits. I tried it and I enjoy it a lot, I even ran a part of a half-marathon barefoot – it was less painful than running with my shoes. It’s good for the environment and animals too, at least for the summer time in Canada. I also have a pair of sandals that are guaranteed to last, from http://www.invisibleshoe.com/shoes.
More info and sources: http://behappyanddowhatyoulove.com/blog/life-running-love.
Keep us posted on long-lasting items you buy!
I actually have barefoot running shoes. Really like them and at one point was up to running 5km a few times a week in them. Found any longer and I got foot pain. I use them for weight lifting and they are great for technique.
Not sure complete barefoot running is for me or suitable for where I live. I’ve read up on the benefits and agree, it’s something runners should try.
The flats that I bought are very minimalist in design, no heel, no arch support. They actually felt similar to my barefoot running shoes and I did a lot of walking in them.
Thanks for the links – Rachel
I didn’t read all the comments but would suggest the aurora shoe company. You send in a tracing of your foot and they make your shoes to fit you. There is a neat video on their website showing how they make them. They are open about the sources of materials. Shoes are suppose to last for years and can be sent in for repairs if need be. I just bought a pair and am happy thus far!
I still haven’t read through all of the comments yet, but I’m with you. I’m trying to buy fewer pieces, but of higher quality. I just purchased a pair of doc marten flats in raspberry. Since I still have my black lace-up docs from 1995, I expect these to last me a long time. I didn’t even know they made flats and they’re super cute. Based on one of the other comments, I’m also going to check out the Aurora Shoe Company. (Have already sent an email with a list of questions.)
Perhaps when you find products that you are satisfied with, that last and are of great quality, you could add another page with your recommendations? Just a thought.
You probably ran across this in your research, but perhaps repetto flats could be a worthwhile investment?
I feel exactly the same way. I’m so irritated that it seem like nothing is quality these days, and everything is disposable and falling apart. My family and I are going to start thirfting instead of shopping at chain stores, in the hopes that a) we will find older clothes that are of decent quality, and b) if they fall apart, at least we didn’t harm the environment by buying new. At least we are reusing something that someone else already purchased. At least the fabrics will have had the chance to off-gas harmful chemicals, and at least we will be supporting a local business. But boy, does it irk me that expensive items fall apart just as easily as cheap ones.
I’m dying to have a classic wardrobe that will last years and years, but it’s proving to be quite a challenge.
I have Merrill sandals that just broke on the front flap. They must be at least 9 years old. I had a shoe maker repair the flap and they should be good to go for another long stretch. I also have a pair of Blundstones that are about 7 years old. I wear them every day as well as at the barn and for horseback riding. If I wear a bit better about their upkeep, they might look a tad better, but they are so comfortable and nothing is broken yet. I hate having to replace things, but some many things don’t have parts made for them anymore. I tried to get a toaster oven repaired and waited for over a month to be told that they couldn’t find the part that I needed. sigh. What is this society teaching our kids about consumerism and taking care of the earth?
This post reminded me of something. I bought a pair of “investment shoes” from Wolky. I’m on my third season with them and I’ve been really pleased with how they’ve held up. However, the shoe leather is closer to the soft side rather than rugged and they have some pretty significant toe scuffing at this point. It made me realize I don’t really know how to care for leather shoes. I guess in our current throw-it-away culture, it isn’t something that’s passed down anymore. Looking on the kiwi website, I see that they recommend polishing and weatherproofing before you wear them at all to protect them (which I definitely didn’t do). A friend of mine from Eastern Europe said it was her childhood job to polish shoes regularly (I forget if it was daily or weekly. Something like that.) I instead waited until they looked really bad and then started covering over scratches with polish. So I thought I’d throw it out there. How does everyone care for their nice shoes? Polish? How often? Do you weatherproof?
I know exactly which shoes you bought, and I’m so glad you mentioned your experience. They have targeted ads on Facebook, and with all the walking I do, and the price they charged, I thought they might be worth it. In retrospect, the targeted ads, the slick website, the branded turquoise sole all show a lot more investment in marketing than making. I will be warier next time.
(Not a bad mantra for shopping come to think of it! Marketing over making . . . no thank you!)
Honestly, it looks like Tieks is playing dirty adverts.
Their shoes are obviously designed for heel wearers needing a break. The split sole gives that away, as does the mention of trouser hem clips.
They might have all day walking comfort, but they are not meant to be worn day in day out.
If one was a dedicated heel wearer and needed a pair of “relief” shoes, and wanted them to last, this might be the brand.
I have a pair of the aforementioned Chacos. Actually, I have three, and one has been worn less than two months and is backstock for when my super pair, my daily wear, must be retired.
Why would I do that? Because all three pair were made in Colorado prior to the change to Chinese factories and the sale to a different company in Minnesota.
Pair one is from 1998. Daily wear with the exception of deep snow, so let’s call that a year out of that time.
Pair two is worn a couple times a month, and was purchased when I needed to have Pair one resoled. I literally didn’t own another pair of shoes.
Three was a well-meaning gift.
Pair one has been resoled three times with new straps last time. Same footbed.
Total investment for pair one: $215, plus shipping. Maybe another $21, iirc.
Pair two was on sale at $77. No repairs yet.
Pair three is , as I said a gift, but will equate to a replacement value for pair one. Right now, that is $109, plus shipping.
I do use cheaper snow boots, as I was urban Colorado. I added Yak Trax for trails. Worked.
I killed one pair, replaced it, used it for a season and moved to the San Francisco area. Far less call for snow boots, but they are ducky rain boots as well.
I have a cheap pair of flats for getting into work. I am shoeless while I work.
I’m wondering if there is any reason you wouldn’t get Frye flatts? I actually ordered a pair of Tieks but ended up returning them (they just didn’t feel quite right and I was scared of spending that kind of cash only to be disappointed- unfortunately I live in canada so I still had to cover all shipping costs). Needless to say I’m still on the search for a good pair and thought if you had such a great experience with your Frye boots maybe their flats would be a gr choice.
I can wear a size 11 in the more generous sized Frye boots (Harness style) but I am really more like an 11.5. Tricky to find shoes that fit.
Appreciate the suggestion though and will go check out Frye flats. My sister (also a size 11+) just had a good experience with a pair of Doc Marten flats after reading about them here.
If your “leather” shoes start “peeling” or fraying then take back to the store immediately – this is not real leather & you should be refunded for false advertising claims that the shoes are real leather.
This material that peels is either synthetic / plastic carefully made to look like leather & heat bonded onto the back of thicker material man made material.
OR it is a tiny millimeter thin piece of very crappy leather that is stretched within an inch of its life & then heat bonded as above.
The same process is used to make “leather” lounge suites, “leather” bags & belts.
It’s such an annoying marketing ploy & we are all now dubbed into thinking that leather peals or frays because its the norm in the leather goods industry.
Real leather does not warp, peel , fray or do anything except age beautifully & last many many years.
I think you’ve just discovered a sad fact of modern life: people don’t walk any more. So shoes aren’t made for walking. They’re made for 10m treks in and out of the house/car and that’s about it. I’m sure your shoes would have lasted if you had only used them for that.
I also bought shoes which lost their heels (almost flat heels) within 3 months. When I bought them I had said I needed shoes for everyday use: to work and go for walks, so they needed to be comfortable and sturdy. I thought I bought a brown leather shoe with wooden heel, but when the heel came off, it looked like some composite wood imitation or cardboard! When I took them back to the shop I was told my feet were hard using and that I should have known better than to wear the shoes in wet conditions! I was baffled.When you buy a pair of leather shoes in the autumn you expect them to stand up to some moisture, no? Apparently not… after a lot of moaning they agreed to fix one heel at their cost, one at mine…
I have a Singer sewing machine which is about 100 years old, it works like a charm, and luckily I have a service man nearby who can keep it in good shape (the leather strap from the wheel to the machine had worn recently).
I too wish there was some way of finding decent materials and product and get really annoyed by stuff that is basically designed and produced to last only just past the guarantee date…
I strongly recommend LL Bean. I worked for them. Their policy is a lifetime satisfaction guaranteed, no questions asked. I once returned a coat I had for 10yrs that had started to lose it’s down and they replaced it with another. Their prices are reasonable, their products are classic quality, and their shipping is FREE!
Thanks, Kate. This is good to know.
Sadly, the Frye company was bought by a Chinese company in 2011. My recent Frye purchases, all made in China, have been defective, cheaply made, and were returned. There is no quality control. They are made to look nice when they are brand new, but they fall apart when worn. My old Frye bags and shoes, made in USA, Mexico, and Brazil are all great quality, built to last for a few decades. I notice this season’s new Madison Disc Thong sandal has a hefty $198 price tag on it. They are cute but they are the same as last-year’s garbage with a new look. My recent Frye experiences include: receiving mismarked shoes (wrong size), not enough holes punched in straps to buckle and wear the sandals, T-strap upper so long, couldn’t hold sandal on foot when walking, ballet flats are total trash, black shoes have plastic/wood heels when listed as leather. The Frye website no longer boasts being American, no longer mentions a guarantee, and does no lists buyer reviews of products. Surprise, surprise! Lesson learned: buy local, buy quality, take the time to find artisans who really do take pride in their product. Frye is history for me.
Good to know. Thanks for posting this here, Rita. My boots are still in great shape but I think they were made in 2010. I won’t be buying another pair (hope to not have to) per your comments. Now… if you do find a great company making great, long lasting, and stylish footwear, come back and tell me!